Seriously, GET a confinement lady. Because:
1 They will take good care of your child. They have more experience than you and are less likely to screw up and you can get firsthand demonstrations on how to handle a newborn or more specifically your next newborn.
2 It will take a toll on you or your husband or both. It here refers to the sporadic feeding times, the nappy changes, the irritating confinement rules, the fear-inducing cries of your baby and parenthood. Yes, IT is scary. With clowns or without.
3 Mothers or Mother in laws are not much help. They pamper the baby too much. Everytime she cries it is because she is hungry, hungry and hungry. And if you gave birth to that baby, you are the one who will be changing the nappy.
4 Money can be earned back. Resentment towards your partner and your baby is not worth saving RM3k. And if you can't fork out the money, why the heck are you pregnant in the first place? Plan ahead. Plus, it hurts really bad when you can't afford to give your child what she/he wants, needs or deserves.
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